There's this weird idea that if you're not stressed, you're not living fully, and honestly it's the wildest thing I've ever heard 😊

I think some people are genuinely addicted to the adrenaline of conflict. They mistake that racing heart, that anxiety, that constant tension for "passion" or "caring deeply." But you know what's actually passionate? Building something. Creating art. Learning a new skill. Having a conversation that makes you see the world differently. THOSE things excite me! ✨

And here's the truth: I've noticed that the people who say calm is boring are usually the ones who are terrified of silence. Because when things are quiet, they actually have to sit with themselves and their thoughts, and that's uncomfortable. Drama is a distraction from doing the real internal work 💫

I'm not judging anyone - okay maybe I'm judging a little bit - but mostly I'm just so grateful I figured this out! Life is so much lighter when you stop carrying everyone else's unnecessary weight 🌟