Why is that?
Because I'm used to being independent. Since childhood, I saw how my mother carried everything on her own, and decided: I will never wait for someone to pay for me.
I like to feel that I can take care of myself. It gives me freedom. And you know what? It's very sexy when a girl doesn't wait for a "sponsor", but chooses who and how to spend her time with.
But there is another side.
Some men get offended after such “I myself” statements. They say, “You humiliated me, I’m a man, I have to pay, You don’t make me feel needed.”
Others, on the contrary, relax and say, “Wow, you’re so cool!” It’s easy and stress-free with you.
And what do you think?
• Is it important for you to pay for your girlfriend yourself — is this your “male role”?
• Are you comfortable when a girl pays for herself and you don’t feel like a “wallet”?
• Or maybe the ideal option is when you pay in turns or 50/50?
• Have you ever had a case when a girl said “I myself” — and you thought, “wow, she’s so independent” or, on the contrary, “I don’t like it”?
How do you feel when a girl pays for herself?
I'm really interested in your opinion... especially if you're one of those who can let me be myself, strong, independent and at the same time very, very feminine 😘
P.S. If you're one of those who says "a girl should never pay" tell me why. And if you're one of those who says "let her pay, it's easier for me" tell me too. I'd be happy to hear all the thoughts.