So what is LOVE?
Everyone knows that love is a bright and beautiful feeling. Everyone is looking for it. They all want it. And when they find, they believe that this is for all life. Everyone wants it so. But not always it turns out unfortunately. There is an opinion that love is only an emotion. Like anger, envy, sadness or joy. There are emotions for a long time, but there are short ones. For example, when someone stepped on your foot in transport. You will get angry, but soon forget about it and never remember again. This is a short emotion. Or you are lucky and you won in the lottery $ 10000. You will be happy for a few days, then start planning where to spend them. It's a long emotion. So is love. But the short or long it depends on the particular person, who it is aimed at. From his behavior, from his words, from his actions. Many intelligent men and women have tried to understand love. But the secret is that it can not be understood, and it is not necessary. If there is love, it must be accepted, let in and protected. Because in this world everything passes and love can pass. And it depends on everyone how he will cherish his love.
LOVE to your partner can not be without UNDERSTANDING and RESPECT. You can respect a person but do not understand and do not love. You can understand, but not respect and not love. But you can not love a man and do not understand and even less respect! This applies to both men and women. When you love a person, you are ready even to give up your principles in order to understand it. After all, everyone knows that men and women are different, and in relationships they complement each other. At a time when a man needs to be alone, a woman wants attention and affection. And they both think that they do not understand each other, although this is natural, nature has invented it. We just need to remember this. A woman wants to spend an evening together, but her husband goes to the gym for example, or with friends in a billiard. But she loves him and respects his interests, and does not express any discontent. Or the man was called by friends to a pub or billiard, but he knows that the wife wants to spend this evening together, for a romantic dinner. And he loves her and respects her. And of course he stays at home without regret.

A man in a family is a minister of foreign policy, and a woman of internal connections. This is not all the differences, most of which you can observe every day. We are different - this is the plan. We need each other, because we are different.
We are together, because we are different. And we can be happy if we understand that we are different. We have nothing to compare and decide which of us is better. This approach only gives rise to arguments and quarrels. And if we learn to see differences and rejoice in them - peace and harmony will reign in families.

For perfect relationships you need 3 things;

LOVE

RESPECT

UNDERSTANDING.

Respect can be without love. Understanding can be without love. But love can only be with understanding and respect. And even if it so happened that love has passed or cooled, then respect and understanding remain.
I wish everyone to find their love. Protect her, respect and understand. I wish you happiness.