I am sure that many people feel these emotions and go through the same daily turmoil of longing for love.
Yet many of us can be so strong on the outside, but also have a brittle heart.
I've been on here for over 4yrs now and become very close with many of you through your letters.
You have let me into your lives, opening your hearts to me and I feel bad that I have been unable to answer all of your letters even if just to say hi.
I think many of you can agree that it is difficult to truely open your heart, to take that leap of faith.
We all want that true love, but are so afraid of the hurt and pain again.
Keeping in contact can also be difficult, whether it's a simple case of not being able to get credits or it is a time in your life where things are difficult.
If you truly care for someone, have fallen for them so deeply then don't give up.
There may be times when one of you may not be able to write.
If you see them online yet they do not write it doesn't mean they are not interested.
Look to see if they are constantly clicking your profile, it may be there way of saying please wait for me and that they still care.
Don't they say that the best things are worth waiting for.
The heart is a very fragile thing, it can give you the feeling of pure love and happiness, but can also have a fear inside of loosing that love once you've opened your heart.
Life is so full of many challenges, but it's also full.of amazing things.
If you can imagine loosing everything you have, but still standing there holding the hand of your loved one and facing it all together then you are ready.
It takes a very strong heart and soul to keep pushing forward and holding on together when everything seems to be against you.
But isn't that what true love is, knowing that what you both have is strong enough to face the hardest of times.
Even I myself have had one injury after another the last few years and have been unable to answer messages, even panicking that I will loose someone through not being able to write.
But I have always hoped and kept faith that someday, somehow things will work out and I'll be holding my true love soon.
If you really love the person you are writing to, don't give up.
Believe in your heart and feelings.
Wishing you all a very happy Christmas and my best wishes to you and your families x