As our world becomes smaller with the advancement of technology, and the morality of the past gives way to new generations of men generally seeking immediate gratification, it gives the opposite gender a valid concern of the inability of men generally finding it acceptable for men to practice polygamy. Not all woman are seeking monogamy, but I have found a vast majority ideally want a man that will love them and no other while in a long term relationship. Some men will say that is to idealistic, but there are those few idealists that want to find their one and only. I am one of those idealists, and some of you will find humor in my morality, others will be envious as they grew up with the idea of a perfect relationship, but bent to the pressures of their friends and peers tossing their convictions aside and taking the path to immediate gratification and not waiting for the ideal "one". Other men have shunned very wonderful ladies that happen to have a child in their home, as they don't want complication in their relationship, after all, its not my child. I can tell you from years of experience, that an unmarried woman choosing to bring a child into this world after the one they slept with had gone, or dropped them as soon as they found out they were responsible for their short term flings pregnancy speaks poorly of the mans moral and ethical position and speaks volumes as well for the woman choosing to bring the child into the world and raising them to adulthood with out a males influence on the child's life. It has been a common theme with the ladies seeking a long term relation ship, to often they are finding men initially interested in them, usually for sexual reasons, when the males discover the women are with child, the men disappear as not to mess up their sex life and refusing to except a responsibility of both the female they were interested in and her child which for what ever reason she now raises unselfishly alone. Since I have been on this site, I have met two woman that were beautiful and had family tell them they could never find a husband as they did not live up to the beauty standards that seems to be the norm with Ukrainian woman. They were called ugly and body shamed by their own family and other men the had attempted to associate with. I will tell you, after a long time looking for my last first kiss, and a 33 year marriage that ended in divorce, I can tell you as I have been on this site for three weeks and have found more than 1500 women that have written me, I can tell you I have affection for all of them and will find it hard to decide on the final outcome. I can also tell you that I adore and respect those ladies that have unselfishly taken up the responsibility for a child which came either in a short term marriage or a relationship outside of marriage. The last thing from me, I will continue to contemplate my final relationship, I want all those who are seeking my attention, please know I read all of your letters and I will respond in time to you as I get through the ladies letters and decide on the ladies I have narrowed my search too.

Respectfully
Jeffrey