Throughout his life, we have someone listen to their parents first,
then friends, followed by the turn of heads and spouses. Psychological
dependence has its origin in early childhood, when there is an urgent
need for approval, and later it turns into a desire to conform to
society. Blind desire not to enter into a confrontation with the
environment can carry far more problems than the lack of personal
opinion.

Psychological dependence on the beloved develops most often in the
early stages of the relationship and that's fine. In the desire to
spend time together and catch every word, there is nothing alarming,
if over time it fades into the background and the ability to return
soberly to weigh things. Even worse, if that perfectionism is delayed
and transferred into adult life. In the absence of opinion often lies
an inability to take responsibility - a trait that really interferes
with family life.

Depending on which lie under the name "bad habits" bring more trouble.
Propensity to use drugs and alcohol do not negotiable and require
urgent treatment, it is not the habit, and disease. It is difficult to
resist the "tasting" where tobacco products are sold in every store,
and offer free slot machines to turn life into a celebration. In some
history dating ends with the first meeting, and others all his life
unsuccessfully trying to overcome addiction, which, among other
things, significantly spoil the quality of life.

But do not look the cornerstone of the solution. The ability to fall
into a relationship is transmitted genetically and ineradicable.
Lesser of evils might be the substitution effect. Do not be afraid to
learn new things, it is likely that there is a person or activity
which can take place, which was given before the little and great
weaknesses.