I have been on both sides of silence. I have been the one refreshing my inbox, rereading old messages, wondering what I did wrong. And I have been the one who let a conversation fade because I did not have the courage to say "this is not working for me."🤷🏻‍♀️

Here is what I learned. Silence feels cleaner in the moment. You do not have to deal with their hurt or their questions or their face falling. You just disappear and tell yourself it is easier for everyone.

But it is not easier. It is just easier for you. The other person is left holding all the weight. Wondering. Blaming themselves. Making up stories about what went wrong because you were too scared to give them the truth.

So I am asking you now. When you stop writing to someone, what are you really afraid of? And have you ever stayed in something too long just because you did not want to be the one who walked away?

I really want to know what you think about this. Write to me💋

Olga🙈