Let me tell you what it is really like from our side. I sit down and write a thoughtful letter to a man. I put in real effort. I ask him questions about his life, his interests, what he is actually looking for. I hope that maybe this time it will be different. And then half the time, he replies with something lazy like "hey beautiful" and asks for naughty pictures. That is not flattering. That is exhausting.

I know men deal with their own frustrations on here. You write to women and they never reply. You put yourself out there and get nothing back but silence. I am not saying you have it easy. But here is what you get wrong about us. You assume we enjoy the attention. You think we like getting dozens of messages and playing games and leading men on. That is not true. Most of us are tired. We are tired of putting in effort and getting nothing real in return. We are just hoping someone will finally take us seriously.

I am not saying all men are like this. I am saying enough of them are that it makes women want to give up. And that is a shame because I know there are good men on here. Men who actually read letters. Men who ask real questions. Men who understand that women are not here to feed their egos.

So let me ask you something. When was the last time you actually asked a woman a real question and waited for her answer? Not a lazy one. Not one you copied and pasted. A real one that showed you actually read her profile and saw her as a person.

Are you the kind of man I'm describing? Let's talk about it in a letter🤭

Olga👄