Honesty. Not the kind that is “for good taste”, but real.

I quickly feel when a man is not writing from himself, but as if from some script. The right words, perfect answers, a little too smooth phrases… and at some point the feeling of a living person disappears.

But a real man is different. He can be a little harsh. He can joke not perfectly. He can say directly that he doesn’t like long correspondence, or that he is busy right now. And there is something very attractive in that.

Because I don’t need a show. I am interested in emotions that are not polished to a shine.

I love when a man is not afraid to be himself even when it doesn’t look “perfect for dating”. This is always felt stronger than any rehearsed phrases.

And you know what is strange? For some reason, such men are less common than we would like.

Maybe authenticity has become a luxury these days?

I wonder… are you more about “perfect messages” or are you talking about live conversation without filters?