I used to think that relationships should be "like everyone else's." Photos together, the same plans, beautiful words about the future. But the older I get, the more I understand one thing. The most valuable thing is to have a person with whom you can breathe easily.

Without control. Without constant checks. Without the game of "who cares more."

I'm not looking for an ideal man. I'm much more interested in a real one. Someone who can write in the middle of the night "I thought about you." Who can laugh at stupid things. Who is not afraid of desires, flirting and passion.

It seems to me that the sexiest thing in a man is not appearance or even money. But self-confidence and the ability to make a woman want to be next to him.

Maybe that's why I'm not interested in "proper" relationships anymore. I want real emotions. Even if they're a little dangerous.

Do you still believe that a strong attraction between a man and a woman can appear after the first conversation?