The vast majority of men in their blogs, in comments on the forums, write that women need money, that they are mercantile and prudent. But this is what I tell you, men, according to my and my girl friends' experience: those 80% will not bring a flower for a girl on a date, they won't take her neither to a restaurant, no to a semi-crooked cafe.
The girlfriend told me that her Internet friend invited her to a date. Anechka was from work - in a skirt, on heels, in kapron
tights, a stylish jacket. It was autumn. Do you think he asked her to at least go to a cafe? No! He walked her for 4 hours in the cold on the hills in the park. By the end of the meeting she was frozen, like an icicle.
For four hours, he was spreading his tail in front of her - that he really is cool and how he needs high relations! What are you talking about, guys, if many of you say that a girl who wants to drink a cup of coffee for 100 rubles is mercantile? And the absolute majority of men, coming to the girl on a visit, will, at best, bring 1 rose or a cheap chocolate. Only few will think that she racked her brains over what to cook for dinner.
Well, tell me, which of you want to see besides you a not well-groomed girl with overgrown roots, flaking skin, shabby nails, cheap Chinese jeans, rubber flip-flops and cheap panties ?! No, you want pretty, beautifully dressed fairies. With the fact that the vast majority of you look pretty dumb and nerdy! You think that women do not invest anything. Do you even understand how much it costs for a woman to be beautiful? Have you thought how much it costs to buy a normal underwear? I do not even stutter about chic underwear, just beautiful one! Have you ever looked at the prices of cosmetics? How much does a decent mascara, powder, perfume bottle cost? Shadows? Lipstick? Jewelry?
You say that women are mercantile, but it never occurred to anyone that they have already invested so much in their beauty that you never dreamed! Ask how much it costs to dye hair in the salon? You will be stunned. A manicure? Pedicure? Cosmetologist? Do you know how much a good face cream costs, with help of which the skin is so smooth? A shampoo, that makes hair shine? AND DO NOT SAY THAT THE WAY SHE LOOKS IS NOT IMPORTANT - THIS IS THE BULLSHIT! So why suddenly, having invested so much money and energy, should she give herself to some loser, who can not even take her to the cinema? And how many of you are able to support your family? So she could live at home peacefully, carrying YOUR child, and not die of hunger.
No, this is not mercantile spirit! It is a normal instinct to evaluate a man according to his abilities. In the end, the main function of a man is to extract and be able to protect, to be strong. Do you offer sex without obligations and, supposedly, pleasure? Wake up, boys! You almost always have pleasure, but the woman does not! Because in general it is difficult for a woman to have fun with an unfamiliar man.
This is the way we are arranged. You all consider yourself to be good lovers and think that you should all be taken, including the poor, the ugly, the cash-strapped, and most important, the ones who have no idea what it is to care about someone? And do you deserve it? Marina