Hello everyone! Today I wanted to raise a topic of virginity. Being a 19-year old girl, many people ask me why I haven't had any serious relationship yet.

Back in Soviet times, many girls got married at the age of 18-20 and had kids a year later. But times change and I don't want to rush.

My aim here is to find a man who is loving and kind, romantic and caring, naughty and passionate - this is a great mix. I guess this the desire of many girls all over the world.

I think as many girls here, I get naughty invitations to chat. I am sorry, but lately it has become way too much and it makes me irritated and even angry. Dear men, when you write a girl who you don't know at all, or barely know, that you want to take her virginity, what do you want to see as an answer?

Many men have no photos in profiles, some do, but still, can a photo help a girl know you better? How about knowing a girl who you like in the photo? How about asking her about her hobbies, studies, work, family, friends? About what is really important for her? Why don't you tell the same to her?

It seems to me that some men here come just to play, play with people's lives, with their feelings and emotions, to get access to hot bodies and sexy faces. Do you realize that Ukrainian girls are tired of local men, who smoke, drink, look for one night stands? Do you understand that if we come here, we look for a different kind of guys? The ones, who want to create something beautiful with the girl, not demand sex, making all his wishes come true, serve him and keep her mouth shut all the time - and all that in the first chat!

Surely there is always time for playing, but guys, why have you decided that this is appropriate to speak about this when you don't know the girl at all? When there is no basis of trust and friendship, affection and warmth?

Some guys ask if a girl is ready to give herself on the first date in reality. How can we possibly know that? Maybe she will like you so much, that she will be ready to do it and you will both fall deeply in love, maybe she won't and she will need time. But how can she know that across such a distance?

You know, back in Ancient Rus, virginity was something sacred for young people, not just girls. Being intimate meant much more than physical contact, it meant souls becoming one, completing each other. People kept themselves clean - their souls and bodies - for just one person.

Nowadays it feels like men want women to be cheap. To use them and throw away and move on to the next one. Tell me, dear men, why would women want that? Especially young girls, who are waiting for one big first love to come into their loves - no matter how unrealistic it may sound, it still happens!

My point is that we shouldn't rush with it. We should take time to know each other, to let love grow and when this time comes - let it be special, even if this girl is not your first one, let HER feel special, she will truly value such attitude! Believe me, it will be totally worth it, when you wait just a bit and this treasure will be all yours.

I hope to hear your opinion on this!

Angelina