I can't stand alpha males. This eternal competition over who bought the coolest car, who's more right. Behind the outward bravado, there's emptiness. They don't know how to listen; they're afraid of weakness and self-deprecation.

I'm looking for a mature man because responsibility, paying bills, and the ability to hammer a nail are essential. But I'm looking for a boy because he needs fire inside, curiosity, passion, and a desire to fool around. I'm tired of "serious guys" who only talk about politics, the dollar exchange rate, and their sore knees on dates. I want us to be able to go for a walk in the rain at midnight, get covered in flour baking a stupid pie.

He won't compete with me. He'll be on my side. He'll have the wisdom to keep quiet when I'm wrong, but also the courage to tell me the truth when I'm being overly serious. He doesn't play the "savior" because I'm self-sufficient. But he'll be there so I know there's a wall behind me, not a glass fence.

Can you lose board games with laughter, not a fight?
Can you let a woman take the lead without hurting your ego?
Do you remember the last time you did something spontaneous, silly, and incredibly fun?
What's more important to you: looking cool in front of your friends or being happy at home?
Inna