Let's be real. Chemistry hits fast. But is it real, or just heat?😐

Here's how to check yourself.

Lust is impatient😮‍💨. Love is curious🤔.

Lust wants the highlight reel. Love wants the behind the scenes. If he only shows up when things are fun and disappears when life gets messy, that's a sign.

Lust avoids questions⁉️. Love asks them🤭.

Does she want to know your story? Your family? What scares you? Or does she change the subject when things get deep? Pay attention.

Lust is about timing🥺. Love is about consistency🙈.

Anyone can be sweet at 2am. Watch what happens at 2pm on a Tuesday. Real interest shows up on ordinary days, not just exciting ones.

Lust keeps options open❌. Love makes a choice✅.

If you're still not sure where you stand after weeks of talking, that's your answer. People who want you make it clear. People who don't keep it blurry.

Lust feels like fireworks🧨. Love feels like home🏠.

Fireworks are loud and fast and gone by morning. Home is steady. It's the person you want to tell good news to first. It's the one you're not performing for.

The test?🙋🏼‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋🏻

Imagine them seeing you at your worst. Sick, broke, stressed, no makeup, bad mood. If the thought makes you want to hide, it might be lust. If it makes you want to be held, that's something deeper.

Only you know which one you're in. But be honest with yourself. Lust isn't bad. It's just not enough.

Irina🥰