Hello dear readers of my blog.
I want people, who build relationships (no matter what: friendship or love), to learn to talk frankly with each other about everything (politics, art, stray dogs, movies, sex and everything else).
Talk and hear each other. After all, it's much easier to build relationship like that, and most important - more interesting.
All misunderstandings arise because of unspokenness and understatement. Do you agree?
It is stupid to puff lips and go out of the room, you need to turn your face to the person and say everything that disturbs you, offends you and hurts and be ready to hear his claims to you.
This is the normal position of two adults, and everything else is a kindergarten!
It's the kind of relationship I saw between my parents)))) They are very happy, they always tell each other everything, they share and if something is wrong, they express their opinion.
But my personal experience was unsuccessful. One of my former young men, took offense all the time and was silent)))) This silence lasted a long time, and then he poured out all the dirt that accumulated in him. It was terrible, therefore there was a failure in these relations!
How was it in your relationships? Which experience is good for you? How to behave in a relationship, to speak? Or it is not good to say too many words?
I wish you all happiness.
With best wishes, Nina.