We see love everywhere: in movies, songs, and social media. Most of them show us exciting dates, sweet words and romantic surprises. A lot of us grow up believing that this is what love should look like. But as time goes by, many of us start to doubt. Is that bright, burning feeling real love? Or is it just temporary attraction?

I think true love is more than excitement. It does not only exist on happy days. True love stays when life gets hard. It means accepting someone’s weaknesses, not only loving their shining sides. It is choosing to understand, forgive and show up for each other, even when you are tired or upset. It respects each other’s space, dreams and differences. Two people do not have to be the same, but they are willing to walk forward together.

True love also starts with self-love. You cannot give steady love to another person if you do not know how to treat yourself gently. Love should not make you lose yourself. Good love lifts you up and lets you become a better version of who you are.

Of course, everyone has their own answer. Here are some questions for you:

1. Do you think true love has to last forever?
2. Can true love exist without romance?
3. Is it possible to find true love more than once in a lifetime?
4. What is one thing you will never give up for love?
5. How do you know if someone’s love for you is real?