People often say that gentleness is a character trait, but I gradually realized that gentleness is actually a choice ☁️.

It's not about speaking softly and having no temper, nor is it about always accommodating others.
Gentleness is feeling a little softer in your heart when seeing fallen leaves gently falling;
It's about not getting upset and impatient when encountering minor annoyances, giving yourself some time to digest them🍂;
It's about being more understanding towards those around you and being less aggressive.

Tenderness is hidden in many small moments:
A cup of just-right warm water ☕, the pinkish-orange evening sky🌇, a gentle word of comfort, allowing oneself to occasionally slack off and daydream, accepting the imperfect self.

We don't have to force ourselves to always shine brightly and dazzlingly.
Those with kindness have a layer of warm, gentle light 🌷.
They will treat themselves well and also gently catch others' emotions.

May we all accumulate enough tenderness,
Live unhurriedly and slowly,
Be treated gently by the world, and also have the ability to treat the world gently 💫.