Hey-lo to everyone who's reading this and wondering what I will talk about!
There's no wonder that here on the site the most of men are - let me say - above 30, and women are mostly below 30.
At least for me it is no wonder, but for many men from here it appears surprising that such a young lady as me can be interested in a man of... in an adult man, let me say so ;)
But what surprises me more - it is the fact that they keep writing anyway, from time to time, as if trying to examine the ground, check the lady, and just as if they doubt in what this lady says.
Well, and it is really worst thing to do, men! I assure you! Because of this you can easily miss out your only one. And now I'll tell you why.
The fact is that women here are young. Mostly.
The fact is that men here are... again, adult. Usually.
And I deliberately don't use the word "old", because it is the tag that only your birth documents keep in mind.
I don't know, why you men are so concerned about numbers, but still numbers are only some metrical signs that helps us to measure time, distance, weight and so on.
Is there any scale that can measure, for example, experience, wisdom, responsibility of a person? No.
Is there any clearly extablished and accepted norm of what should any of us be able to do, or be able to bear? Not always.
Yes, we have some legally established limits for sexual contacts, for marriage, for censorship. But usually after we get 18 years old we have NO limits and borders of when and how we should do this or that. ANY, you see???
Except for if you wanna become a President ;) There - yes, you have to be at least 30 y.o. (depending on country).
But we are here not to become Presidents.
And as for relationships between people (love, friendship, etc.) - there are no limits in numbers since you have 18. Biologically.
And here all have ;)
It is not accidentally, since when you turn 18 - you are as usual ready for life, you are responsible enough for your decisions, and you are THE ONLY person who has to be in charge of your OWN self-development and self-estimation. YOU build yourself since that age. YOU and ONLY YOU.
And from this time on all you have - is to try and reach the ideal of a person you want yourself to be. And, surely, you look for the one who is worth to be next to you.
And now - ATTENTION, GENTLEMEN! - I will say VERY rude thing: men never get old, because they never get adult ;)
Yes, even at 40, 50, or 80 - men usually are children in heart, and it is wonderful. I will not talk now why it happens exactly so, but men, dear, do not try to persuade us that you are more serious (or as you say "I am too old for you!") than us, women. Since you are not ;)
No one can say how much experience has this or that person, since as I said there's no measurement for it. But women usually have all the experience they need before they turn 18. All survival things, if in common. Men sometimes have no idea of even how to cook what they got in the fridge ;)
So, please, men, do not say to us that you are too old, or too adult, or any such things ;)
To be honest completely, I am tired of men of my age. Especially of local men (too spoiled in addition). I feel like a mommy next to them.
I don't wanna be a mommy to my man. I wanna be a woman!
So on this I confess, I look for an older man than me... Because youngsters are not only too young, they are just kids if to compare ;)
Kids in mind, toddlers in decisions, babies in lifeviews.
And when any of you say "I am too old for you" - it sounds as an offence, honestly! ;)
Who knows on what things I may be more keen than you?! ;)
So, less prejudicement, be open, men! And don't be afraid of younger women. Numbers are just numbers. They don't set anything.
If you're really adult - you'll consider this right ;)

Sincerely yours,
Tamy-to-tame ;)

P.S. To what my info has cheered you up??? ;)