Love lives only for 3 years… Is it myth or reality?
Most people agree with this statement because have gone through it by themselves. In three years or so their relationships, such wonderful at the beginning, just failed as a result.
This myth turns into reality, if your partner and you have nothing more in common except of sexual attraction. Relationship of two people is hard work and it’s necessarily to build it from the first meeting. You shouldn’t ignore all the misunderstandings or disadvantages and say “Let it come as it may”, otherwise it will indeed come for the first three years until you become alien people…
Perfect relationship is work of two partners when each of them thinks not about themselves but about their second half. It doesn’t mean you should dissolve in each other dropping into love addiction. To love means not to accept your partner with all their advantages and disadvantages but simply to understand him/her. You shouldn’t just look at him/her but realize motives of his/her actions and behavior. Because only when we become more tolerant to each other, desire to change the partner for yourself disappears.