It’s a question I find myself asking more and more lately...

Why are there so many men on dating sites who are already married, or who have a woman at home waiting for them to return?

Honestly, it leaves me completely baffled. I came here hoping to meet someone who is truly unattached, someone ready to build a genuine connection and, perhaps, something meaningful for the future.

But sometimes I wonder: is the man I’m talking to actually free? Or is there a wife somewhere who believes her husband is just working late, spending time with friends, or relaxing at home?

Isn’t this unfair to both women? His wife is being deceived, while the woman he’s seeing here might be investing her emotions, time, and hopes into someone who can never truly be hers.

I understand that every relationship has its own story. Perhaps a marriage is unhappy, a couple is living apart, or someone is simply looking for something they feel is missing from their life. But why not be honest from the very beginning?

I’m not judging anyone for their personal choices. I simply believe that honesty and respect should be the foundation of any relationship, even if it’s just a casual interaction.

I’m very curious to hear your thoughts. If you are married or already in a relationship, what brings you to a dating site? What are you hoping to find here that’s missing from your current relationship?

And do you ever stop to consider the feelings of the women on both sides of this situation?

Let’s have an honest conversation. No games, no excuses, just the truth.

Olga 🙏🏼🙏🏼