Valentine's Day, I really hate to see this day come. Being on this site on Valentine's day is the most depressing day of the year. Not for the reason you may think. Yes it's true that I have no one to be with on this day, a day should be full of love, life and happiness. It's true that I received many good wishes for this day but I received so many letters from women on the site that ask why I didn't send them Valentine's day wishes. Almost every letter like that was written by a woman that I have never written to or only wrote to once or twice.

I never believed it possible but there are women here that try to bully me into writting to them. There are others that try to make me feel guilty to make me write to them. Still others will try to make me feel sorry for them to get me to write to them. The biggest joke of all are the woman who say they love me just from reading my profile. I'm not Bill Gates and I don't have tons of money so I can't afford to write 20 letters a day!!!

When I do meet a lady that I think I would like I write to them and introduce myself but most of the time I regret doing that because that starts the endless letter cycle. It's true that there are many beautiful PHOTOSHOP WOMEN on the site. When you see them on camera, many do not look like their photos. Ladies, if a man tells you that you are beautiful he is saying that you are beautiful to him. That doesn't mean that you are beautiful to every man. Just because you tell me that you are beautiful doesn't mean that you are beautiful to me. "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!"

I am at the point that when I receive letters the first thing I do is go down the list and delete letters from women under 30. I'm 69 years old and I'm not able to do the things that a 25 year old likes to do. I'm not into fitness and going to the gym. I have worked hard all my life and now that I'm retired I'm going to live a layed back life. Think about it ladies, a man my age is not able to enjoy your active lifestyle. I live an active life but it's a 69 year olds active life, not a 30 year olds active life.

The ladies in their 30's always talk about travel and physical activities and hobbies. I have lived all that stuff already. I have travelled enough. I don't play football and I don't ride mountain bikes or bungie jump or skydive. Extreme sports don't give me an adrenalen rush, they give me broken bones. After the adrenalen rush of combat extreme sports aren't even close.

Ladies if you are a single mother I understand that is a lot of work and it makes your life difficult. My mother was a single mother so I get it. But I never had children and I don't want children. That doesn't mean I'm a bad person just because I don't want the responsibility of another man's child. I'm not the bad guy here. I'm not the one who made the baby with you and I'm not the one who decided that you need to have custody of that child, you are. You made that choice to have a child with some man. I'm not the bad guy because I don't want a woman with a child. The selfish bastard that fathered the child is the bad guy. I'm not the one who wanted a child with this guy, you are. I don't want a woman with a child and there is nothing selfish or cruel about it.

Here is a little piece of advice for you ladies who are thinking that you want a child. You need to understand that once you have that child you ended the love affair with your man. A good man will still love you but as the mother of his children not as his reason for living. You distroyed that love by putting another life in his place as most important to you. Almost every woman on earth will choose the life of their child over the man they say they loves life every time. We, as men, know this and that one simple fact will cause almost any man to understand that he is no longer the love of your life, that child now is the love of your life.

These are just my opinions and I could be wrong. After all, I have been wrong before.

Catbox.N