It is not a secret that communication is one of the most important things in relationships between man and woman, that is why I decided to devote more attention to this topic, and try to understand how man thinks... Surely we think differently, like they say men use brains,but women use hearts. Some psychologists say women common icate better than man, we can read non verbal signals, catching small details, intonation and decode mimicry.I think it is one of the reasons that a lot of men understand less than women try to explain.
Just remind, like we are chatting here, women always try to use as much smilies as they can, but men prefer to be more reserved.
Maybe it is not secrecy anymire, but men don't understand any hints, and don't use them, that is why all what men say means just these and nothing more. No implications, no hidden senses!!!
Do you know such a proverb, if you want something to be done, just do it yourself!!! So if you want something from man, just say it,and say it directly!
It always hurts women when men don't understand their hints, or understand them not right, when you made a hint about golden ring like birthday gift, but your beloved presents you a good cooker :)Funny :)But it does not mean your man does not love you, it just means women need to be open and don't hide any desires.
Everything is simple, if man says "I am hungry",it means he wants to eat, but not that you are a bad cook or forget to buy products he asked for.
Hmm, but when it comes to sex, men understand even more hints we give, sometimes even see hints for sex in every woman's movement or word.
Sometimes we can compare men with children, and it concerns communication more. If you want to tell something to your kid, you tell directly, using No hints or metaphors,so the same with men.
So, again simple and maybe for somebody banal advice "NO MORE HINTS"
With best wishes for everyone here.
Tatiana