People usually think that children are big problem in relations between new spouses. However, it is not so. When we begin new deal or meet new people, we have fears and worries. When we find new person for relations and he or she has children, we afraid of misunderstanding with them. We think that we could not find mutual language with them. That is why some people give up on it.
First, we should try to understand if this new person fits us. We should find common interests and work with it, raise our feelings and do our best.
Second, it is we have to know more about children: hobbies, interests, features. If son likes to play chess, it would be nice to try it together. If daughter likes dances, it would be nice to train together.
Children are very serious and hard part of new relations, but it is opportunity to show love and care to new beloved person.