I'd like to discuss a theory that is called as telegony. The theory that it is very important for a woman to have only one man. And the first serious love partner makes influence on lady's future kids (even if the father is another person). This is not the proved theory, but many people are concerned about the DNA of their future kids.

This in theory implies that all unprotected process of "passionate love" will provide some DNA to future children of a lady, because everything which gets into her body, makes influence on pregnancy!

It seems to be a crazy theory, but some friends of mine tell me: "My children have common appearance with ex-husband!" Of course, in Ukraine ladies don't make DNA test, and I have no idea who is the real father of their kids. But I trust them, and I saw how scared there were!

However, I don't believe in that theory at all. Maybe it was created because of some moral standards. Young women get frightened of a thought that their kids can look like all ex boyfriends... And they make smart conclusions: be picky, be careful and don't give your body to suspicious men!

It's a smart way to make women understand that they should have relationships with that men who could be nice parents and heads of the family.

As for me, I always feel concerned about genes and my health. I hope to find the only one man. And that's what I recommend to other ladies: don't be promiscuous.