A male friend of mine recently walked into a favorite Chinese restaurant. A woman sitting alone gave him a nice smile, and a conversation ensued. He asked for her phone number, she willingly gave it. A few days later, he called, got her phonemail, he left a message explaining that he'd like to meet her for lunch. She didn't return his call. He called again, she explained that she didn't understand why he thought she wanted to date him. This should help Slavic women better understand why American men don't want American women.