Have you ever heard the phrase "To live like a plant"? Most of the people take it wrong, and imagine lazy and boring existence, but, in my opinion, it's the best way a family can exist... I'm talking about quiet and stable life without dramas, big troubles, permament action etc. This is how I see this - family, which lives in their own place, travel from time to time, meet friends a few times per a week, have mutual interests which they enjoy in leisure time. And I bet most of the ladies here will agree with me, since they look not for a boyfriend, but for a man of their lives... The man who reads it - do you see yourself in a role of a husband in such an ideal world? A lot of gentlemen seek for "crazy" wife, with who they will change their life all the time, but, on my friends experience, unions like that very often finish pretty quick... This is how you understand that the lady is right for you - when you look at her, you want to spend a cozy evening near a fireplace with her, not an action life in some club.

Well, it's only my vision, and you may disagree :). I will be happy to discuss it with you, maybe you will change my mind!