Hi everyone reading this . We are all here looking for that special person in our lives .

People always complicate things , we are set to rules and what others think of us .

Some think that love lasts for just 3 years , some think about the 3 date rule , others are just afraid to live the way that they want . Do I have your attention now ?

I am a single father , my first marriage ended because my wife wanted to chase men more that being a mom or wife .. My second ended when my wife died of cancer in my arms .

LIFE is very short and we are not promised tomorrow , or even 5 minutes from now .

When you meet the one you are meant to be with you will know , your heart will tell you . It will not just be a physical thing it will be a deep connection,, So throw out all of the rules and follow your heart not your hormones . There is no right or wrong . You will know in your heart this is that one person you are meant spend the rest of your life with . Be smart enough to see it .
If it is love it will last forever ,who ever you are with will have your heart until death do us part . The 3 year thing is because we all get lazy ,after we get the one we want , but it does not work that way , both sides need romance , just because you are married does not mean you stop dating , and doing nice things for your special person . If you make children in your relationship , they will take up a lot of your time ,, but you must find time for your partner, and date ,, even if it if just once a month , go on a date just the two of you .. LOVE IS EASY ,, LIFE IS NOT .
I have been on both sides of life divorce and death . Life is way too short , enjoy the time you have ,with the one you love ,, and do not look for perfect , it does not exist .

I hope you all understand what I have said , take care and good luck in your search .

Jim