I have been thinking about this for a while. Why do men and sometimes women not respond to messages on this site. I can think of a couple and I would like to tell them to you. This may not be all inclusive, but is my observation.

1) The two people do not seem to connect in their first letter and they think that it is a waste of time.

2) The man does not really want a new lady in his life, but is just thinking the lady as just a friend and not a future companion.

3) The man is unable to travel to meet the lady he has met on this site because of lack of funds or just afraid to travel to her. He fears rejection.

4) The man is retired and lives on a fixed income and is unable to purchase the required credits to continue his conversation with the ladies who have written him.

5) The man is afraid that the lady he has found to be a possible connection is really just putting him on and is not serious. He comes to this conclusion because the lady asks for things he can purchase from this site. A man, if interested will do this without any prompting.

6) I think the most important thing is that many of the ladies here are young, beautiful and would be perfect for the man she is talking to, but the chances of them ever meeting are not very good because of the distance between them.

7) The last is that the lady is not able to get the man's contact here. The site keeps it from her so the man will have tp purchase more credits in order to get a possible contact off this site. Maybe the site should give the woman the same option.

I do not know if you will all agree with me. If you do, fine, if not, that is okay too. If you have any other ideas about that, let me know.

As for me, I am unable to purchase any credits at this time so for all the ladies who have written, I am sorry I have not been able to reply. I hope you will all understand.

Sincerely
thekid, Carl