That will be a wise post. I want to share my thoughts about self-sufficiency.
I think the happiness is in being self-sufficient. Not to depent on any person, not to be boring without people, not to relay on someone. When you are self-sufficient, you can not become disappointed. Noone can let you down, as you do not let people get very close. Is that happiness? Or the happiness when your life and mood depends on someone? When you live thinking only about someone? When you loose yourself in love? It is very hard choice for ladies? To be very self-sufficient, smart and feel no pain. Or to be very emotional and shining, but very fragile. Hm, tricky?