A lot of people ask if there is a friendship between man and woman? Or it is a fairy tale or just a story for stupid romatic movie? Have you ever thought why do we ask this question? Because we can't understand what is it friendship or lust...
MY OPINION IS CONSTANT, NO FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN MAN AND WOMAN!!!
Now, many people could argue with me and prove that there is only friendship between them, but actually all this is simple sympathy,and nothing more connects them together.
I think mostly all women are weak and tender and we always in need of support and strong man near. Moreover I think it is something unconscious inside, that we look at all men like on father for our kids.
The same with men, because first of all in woman man sees a "Woman" (not a friend for a beer) and evaluates her appearance,feels her scent. Anyway, woman is a sexy object for man,his goal and trophy.Have you ever heard such a saying "Trophy wife "? It does not mean we are all wild animals, but it is natural and sometimes instincts play a great role,and we should not suppress these feelings.
There are many the same situation, when one man and one woman becomes friends and nothing more, and in some bad time (when you broke with boyfriend /girlfriend) you become more than friends, but person who help and support, and one step and two"good friends" are in one bed... And that is the happy or not happy end of their friendship, and Maybe they'll fall in love ,or maybe even won't say hello when meet on the street.
To my mind, friendship between man and woman is not natural form of relationships. But I am sure, here are some people who will give me one or two examples of friendship between man and woman, so before you do it think maybe one of these two is in love and simply is afraid of being rejected.Or there are some absolute obstacles that prevent "these two friend" being togerher,or there is a strong passion, but not mutual.
There is one step between friendship and love, and soon or later these relationships will be opened and turn into broken cup.
When you see two best friends, man and woman, just think for a while that you don't know all the truth between them.
With all my best wishes for everybody here.
Tania.