If you are one of the ladies that spends lots of time in chat I would like to ask, how do you expect to find one man who can give you as much attention as all the men you chat with? I have noticed that most of the women that are often in chat have low ID numbers. This would indicate that you have been here for a long time. I can understand why you would like all that attention from different men but what is the chance that you will meet a man that will stand out in such a group? For one man to compete with another for a ladies attention is hard enough but to compete with many other men is almost impossible. You must find this to be true or you would have found your man by now don't you think?

I suppose that there is the possibility that some women spend lots of time in chat to find out which men have a lot of disposable income by learning who is there the most often to chat with them.

It's just a question please don't be offended.