We all like to dream. A dream can become a beacon and a guiding star. For this it is necessary that it be connected with reality.
But we often live with illusion. We are often mistaken about other people. We come up with an image, an idol, to which we are almost praying.
Illusions are dispelled, sooner or later, and a person sees a real person next to him, and sometimes this happens when the couple concluded an alliance called marriage (based on the most frequent illusion that marriage gives them happiness) . Joint living, as a rule, puts everything in its place. And when people close to us appear in their true light, we are angry with them because they deceived our expectations. But they are not to blame for the fact that we do not perceive them as they are . We create illusions about them.
That's why you need to remain yourself and learn to understand others, to be honest with yourself and with others , to take people as they are and don't expect from them things that they can't give you. So that there are fewer illusions in the union and only respect to each other.
The main thing is to do what you love and to love, what you do. To be near to the one you love, and to love someone who is close. Sincerely, without deceiving ourselves. And then life will never be lived in vain. Do you agree with it ? What is your view?
Nastya