I think where there is mystery in relationships, there is also curiosity, intrigue and desire. Mystery is the energy that turns us on. It's an essential component to wanting to get closer to someone, and specifically to that feeling of wanting more.
We all — both as individuals and in relationships — are always striving to find balance between opposing energies. For instance, we all like safety ... but we also like adventure. We all like familiarity ... but we also like novelty. We all like closeness ... but we also like space.
The point of life is not to arrive into a perfect state of balance, and to stay there forever. That's impossible! Life is always in flux, and so are we.
Love without movements is dull and dry. It is like to dance slow without a partner.
Novelty re-engages our senses in a new way; it makes us feel alive ! So do something surprising. And if it's "naughty" and surprising … even better!
Tap into the mystery within you, and let it be your guide. Give spontaneity, Break some rules, Surprise each other and and your relationship will spring into a new life as a result.
So, Men, what do you think , mystery in relationships: yes or no ?
Anna