Ideal couple it is combination of two unperfect people,who are able to love.
Each of us at least once in life tried to find this formula of strong relationship and love.How to be happy if period of first moments of love ,first confessions,sweet fancy cakes and novelty is deep in past.How to keep love,how not judge each other for mistakes,minor shortcomings.How to love and respect each other in any life situation, in health and in disease and in joy and in sorrow?We often fall in love with outer beauty,with glossy picture and often forget what is behind it?We often forget that inside there is justordinary person with a lot of own shortcomings, weaknesses, bad character traits, habits.We are all so much alike-no one of us is ideal.Have you ever asked yourself if you will still love,adore your beautifull princess in the morning when she will wake up without make up?Will you need your amazing beloved snoring at night?:)Are you ready to admire your champing at lunch woman?:)I am sure it will not be easy,but at the same time your woman will have to accept The socks that are scattered all over your apartment)and spots of wet glasses on polished tables or maybe you also snore laud?If we look honestly at our lives, most likely we will see that no one has ever been there for us in a totally reliable, absolutly ideal .But we like to imagine that somebody, somewhere some person movie star or our friend—has an ideal relationship, this is mostly fantasy. Looking more closely, we can see that everyone has his or her own fears, blind spots, hidden agendas, insecurities, aggressive and manipulative tendencies, and emotional problems.We must stop in imaginary world of perfect relationship and stop to trust in asbsolutly ideal partner-no one is ideal and it is full utopia to look for Ideal partner or try to change your partner.If you try to change each other-it is the way to nowhere-the only result -you will lose your love and relationship.
So what shall we do?The only way it is to accept your beloved as he or she is with full set of shortcomings and imperfections.Never try to change.Love him or her for this)And to make yourself accept and not to forbid or blame.Once my old wise granny told me that when you marry you die for yoursef and start to live for him and "us".Of course this expression is controversial, but there is some truth,wisdom and meaning in it.And What is Ideal Match and Ideal relationship for you?
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