If the shoe fits, wear it. I was very angry at the filth sent to my friend. If this is not you, then the letter was not pointed at you. I do not send filth to women, therefore I will cast a stone.

There are many men here who are decent and kind. But there are many who are as I described in the post. If you are offended, then perhaps there is some guilt there.

I am happy for you. You seem like a very nice person. You are not the person at whom that letter was aimed.

Good luck in future endeavors.

David