I am not sure if this blog post will get past moderation but I will write it in hopes that it does. Many of my posts never make it past scrutiny but I keep trying
I have been here for over 5 years now and have fallen in love a few times over but in most instances it ends when the lady of interest does not want to exchange contact information nor does she want my help in trying to acquire a visa to come to Canada. This tells me that she is not serious about finding love and doing whatever is necessary to grow that relationship into something more lasting. So this then makes me wonder what is real and who is into playing games.
The other thing that bothers me here is that it does appear to me that hardly any of the ladies here even bother to read my profile. In mine I do state that I am attached and further to that I explain that I have found a good woman and hope to meet her soon. We are both in love with each other and are making plans to move forward together and meet real soon, hopefully within the next few months. Our relationship is strong or at least I think it is, even though we have not exchanged contact info yet
As stated I don't think many ladies read profiles before sending letters but also not many read these blogs either. I do get the occasional reply or post regarding some of my posts and comments but not many. It seems like us men here have more interaction than the women.
Anyway I want you to know that I love this site and always treat the ladies I do talk and chat with the respect they deserve. This should not be a place for being rude to one another and especially the women here. Any man who doesn't respect the lovely ladies here shows us that he does not have respect for himself either. I am not perfect in any way nor do I claim to be but I treat my fellowmen with the respect they deserve and which they show me they deserve, be it male or female. That is how I was raised and will always be.
So, ladies, if you are interested in a man , please take the time to read his profile first and then consider whether he is worth your bother. Pay attention to what he tells you, answer his questions and concerns and I am sure he will do the same for you. I am very lucky in that I have found the woman I want to spend my life with and I hope that we are able to make that happen soon.
If you do decide to write me and I do not respond then it is because I am not interested because I am currently engaged with someone else and also that I do not wish to correspond with any one else at this time.
Thank you to the agency for your help and I hope that in the near future, through your help, that I will meet my lady and we will leave this site after our meeting and marriage.