Thank you, Ken. I wondered if anyone else here has experienced this issue of the women here not reading profiles. Then also, when you do write a letter to your favorite I find it difficult to believe they actually read the whole message. They all say they want total honesty, which I always agree to and practice that in every letter. It is very sad that very seldom will you get a direct answer to a situation or question you asked them for. Why is that?? It is mind twisting to understand that one. I'm not saying all do this, but when you repeatedly ask for permission to get private contact information so the relationship can grow and be completely open about any issue, if you are ignored with that repeated question and they don't even acknowledge that request, then even though it is hard, you have to then understand that they have no intention of making the relationship grow. This is really hard when you have no other problems in communication because you firmly believe that it is a love connection, but find out after coming to the realization that it is only a game to those people. Then when you don't answer them or write to them anymore, you are then bombarded with accusing letters of neglect. I don't any other way to put it, but that is the facts. I will be openly truthful about this, it happens on other dating sites too, as I experienced that many times no matter what site I was using. I know that some men are guilty of this also, so I'm not signalling out anyone, it appears to be a universal thing. Sad, but true. I thank you again, Ken, for mentioning this and feel better that I was not crazy and feel that it only was happening to me...Congratulations on finding your love, but I'm leaving soon here after over 5 years myself as it is really a lost cause with me...but I have met some wonderful people here and will always remember my experiences here, the good ones and the ones that fooled me too.
God Bless you all !!

Michael