Have you ever felt that you are talking to your other half in different languages? You sincerely express your love, but your other half do not understand you. If we express and perceive love with different ways, then we will erroneously believe that love does not appear at all. It only means that we speak different languages of love. It is not enough to be sincere, we need to talk with a partner in one language of love.
How to define language of love? How to learn to "talk" them and how to avoid misunderstandings and how will this improve relationship? First of all we need to know what languages of love to use.
Words is the first language of love. It can be compliments, words of love, words of support or approval.. If your partner speaks this language, shower it with compliments and do not skimp on kind words.
Another language of love is touch. It's embrace, stroking, kissing, etc. Give it.
For some people, the most powerful manifestation of love is gifts. Not necessarily it have to be very expensive, but the fact of the gift. The fact that you have done something with your own hands or bought.
For some people love means help. To prepare an unusual dinner or perform some household duties.
Time is the most valuable resource. It can not be returned and not bought. In the modern world, it is always lacking. Therefore, if you sacrifice your time for the sake of a man and are ready for a couple of hours to get distracted from everything just to stay close - then you really love him.
If you watch TV, and your beloved just sits next - it does not count. Walking together, dinner without a TV set , notifications on the phone and other things that are distracting - that's what a person who speaks the language of time needs.
I am ready to learn the language of my future beloved . And You ? Are you ready for this important step towards harmony and a happy relationship?
Tanya