I felt that I needed to reply to this based on personal experience. First I'm sure that ladies who have dated more than one man knows that no two men are alike. Is there life after cheating??? From my own experience there can be a life after cheating. In my case it was a different life. It made me to be more cautious and I became less trusting. And gradually less caring.

After 7 years of marriage my wife thought I was cheating on her. Instead of confronting me about it and let me prove that I was not, she decided that if I could cheat on her then she could cheat on me. The problem was that in 43 years of marriage I never so much as kissed another woman with any feeling. I love my wife and I could never think of cheating on her. She didn't feel the same way. I was working 2 job and during my night job she was having an affair that lasted about 8 months. It seemed that everyone knew about it but me. I felt like a fool but I still loved her so I forgave her. Over the next years our live went from lovers to friends with benefits to friends only. I never really trusted her again. That was my experience. Take it for what it's worth.

Catbox.N