First let me say that what i am about to say is only my point of view and not intended to hurt or influence anyone
For me love is built on trust and trust is something we all have in our lives. We trust our partners, we trust our loved ones, we trust our employers, we place trust in almost every one we know that we encounter on a daily basis.
Life is about trust and once we break a trust of any kind we are always leery of that trust again. In a relationship we work daily to grow our love with each other. All our relationships are different and demand different levels of trust. Some people have open relationships and we trust each other to do the right thing, however, most of us have a relationship that just exists between the 2 participants in that relationships. We trust each other to be faithful to each other every day. Having a loving and lasting relationship takes constant tending and is hard because we all change every day. Communication is essential in a relationship and we trust each other enough that if we have an issue that we should be able to openly talk about that issue without holding onto to any grudges. We trust each other enough that we can come to a conclusion that will allow our relationship and our love to grow. It is harder to do that when a love is growing through a long distance relationship that also includes a language issue. But as in any relationship we work through the issues and find a solution that allows us to move forward.
Cheating of any kind in my mind will always break that trust and once broken it will never be fully repaired. No matter what each side may say or do, there will always be a little hole in which a disbelief can enter and that rust is still not fully repaired. In an internet relationship it is much easier to cheat as we have not met in many cases and may feel like it is not real yet but love is always real. Some people may use that word more freely than others without knowing its full consequences and spread it around to attract as many women as possible while hoping to find something real. This is fooling no one but yourself because if you want love in your life, the first part of doing so is to love yourself first. Without that love with another person is not possible
Cheating is cheating whether it be in person or hidden behind a monitor and once one does knowingly cheat on his or her partner that rust you had before is broken and will never be fully mended. And it does not matter which gender you are when it comes to cheating as each side is as guilty as the other. Women cheat as easily as men and men as easily as women. It as said many times that wearing a wedding ring or band makes cheating more fun because then you want to win but what are you really winning.
So in my mind there is no life after cheating in any loving relationship and I believe that if you do want to live a life where relationships are like a conquest, then you need to take a good look in the mirror and see who that person is and if you really trust who that person is.
Just my thought on the subject. Have a good day everyone and love yourself and build that trust in yourself first. Have hunting and I hope every one here searching finds the love they are hoping to find.