Ask a couple who has been married for 25 or 50 years what keeps their relationship alive and they usually tell you that they have important things in common.
What does it mean?
For example if you’re from a family with strong ethnic or cultural heritage, then you need to find a man who shares that background. Otherwise, your relationship will be strained each time his family values and yours collide. There are a few high status couples in the media who come from different sides of the political spectrum. But if your political beliefs are radically different, this is going to impact how well your friends mix and how you live out your beliefs.
But it doesnot mean that I am looking for a man who is my philosophical, spiritual and emotional clone.. Differences of opinion can be healthy – and even exciting. But differences that tear at the essence of the beliefs about who you are and your place in the universe become divisive and quarrelsome in any relationship.
I am ready to share my values, beliefs, ethnicity or culture, and in the meantime, add my magnetism and fascination.
Would you like to have a bond that goes beyond physical attraction? You have this chance with me :) Don't lose it.
Alexandra