There is no couples in the world, which never get some agrues. And
don't afraid it, agrues is normal, but to be health couple you have
just to get out of it god way, not talk too much bad things during
time you are aggresive, because it will be very difficutl to forgive
after even yourself for these things.
And I have also to say that if somehting you don't like in your
relations then you have to talk about it, don't afraid if it will get
to some scandals, but better after if have a great sex together and
become closer then just stay keeping your words inside and never get
happy complete family.
Okey, even if you got some argues, then still keep bad, not polite
words in your own head. Sometimes it can be difficul, but thi sis very
important - no bad words to the other side. Keep them.
Next - is that you have to keep the volume of your ton still normal.
Don't begint o scream - you will get aggresive more and more. And sure
your second half will begin to nervous and do the same- this is
protective reaction. And moreover it is easier to try to understand
person when he/she talks correct and calm.
Think about what you are telling to make the sence in your words.
And the most imporatnt is that easy to start to argue, but not so easy
to get out from it with a smile. The most easier to shout the door and
go away- but it is not good for your future relations, remeber that
jsut egoists and peopel who don't need relations, weak people do it...
If it is difficult for you right now to find compromise then better to
tell :" I understand your position and we have to thihnk and make some
more conclusion about both of us in future".
Wish you good luck in relations)