We have taled about relations with older man, but what can be in this
situation from the other point of view?!
An older man may be attracted to a younger woman because of …
All that she embodies
Older men find younger women full of vitality and life, with a sense
of adventure that an older woman, who tends to be more set in her
ways, lacks. They are more eager to adapt and are more flexible.
Respect for him
Quite often an older man finds himself at the receiving end of a great
deal of admiration and awe from the younger woman. Unlike women who
are his peers, a younger woman may hold him in high esteem and defer
to his opinion since he has years of wisdom to fall back on. Of course
he enjoys this feeling of being idolized.
Physical reasons
Sometimes, older men realize rather late in life that they would still
like to be parents and most often women who are closer to their age
are either past their childbearing years or don’t have the desire to
still bear children. In younger women they can realize their
aspirations for a family. She also makes him feel younger, a sense of
reliving his youthful days. Also, if the older man is in prime
physical condition and younger women still find him attractive, in
typical male style he probably figures why go for prunes if you can
have a juicy plum or a peach?!
The reasons for either party entering into an older man- younger woman
relationship however, doesn’t always make it work or make it ideal for
the couple in question. In fact, many such relationships have often
encountered problems, not least among them insecurities (older man is
afraid younger woman is no longer happy with him and actually has her
sights set on hot, young neighbor), uncertainties about the future
(younger woman fearing she’ll be left alone or a widow when he dies),
feeling like misfits (often they find they can’t gel with each other’s
group of friends due to age differences and conflicting interests), or
simply the younger woman sometimes getting tired of making all the
adjustments because the older man is set in his ways.
But again, which relationship doesn’t have it’s share of problems and
obstacles. While some are of the view that an age difference only
exacerbates some of the typical problems inherent in a relationship,
that does not necessarily hold true in all cases. As in any
relationship, age only becomes a matter of numbers if ultimately the
older man and younger woman, are both adult enough to enter into a
consensual union, you have mutual respect for each other, the age
difference doesn’t matter – at least to both of you (and you’re
couldn’t care less about what society thinks) and you’ve found
something in this relationship that satisfies you like no other has!
No matter what age you are and your gender, open your soul for love)