This topic reflects the kind of views many people have,based on my experience too. I want to say,the view that a woman being intelligent is a problem – only because the man wants control over her or because he has a big ego. Even men sometimes think in this way.Thinking of the dumb,not clever,and i would say even foolish girl and think of the airhead.She might not be acting very smart, but she can be amusing, turn on, and if she’s radiant and comfortable being out of control of life, then she’s very attractive and much beautiful.I want to be clear on definitions: I am grouping together intelligence, strength and success as similar traits for the purpose of this post, as they often go together.A lot of people think it is because the man cannot match an intelligent woman’s intelligence. Maybe he’s threatened! Maybe he wants to have intime relationship to come easily and conveniently, without having to think. Maybe he just doesn’t think much of himself and what he has to offer, so he wants a woman who totally relies on him, to have perceived control.Regardless of a man’s personality and character, the principles for attraction remain the same: in men and women, differences cause attraction and passion. So,for attraction to occur, in general; you will have a radiant human being not in control, as radiance isn’t in controlled, and a strong and present human being who is attracted to the radiant human being.Two highly radiant humans are not usually attracted to each other, and neither are two very present, masculine human beings; there has to be the difference for the ‘spark’ of attraction to exist.There is another layer of truth to this question of why men feel more attraction to the woman showing up as less intelligent than the woman who is showing up as smart, successful.That layer of truth involves accepting that in many cases, a woman’s actual intelligence is not the problem – women are taught to believe that it is the problem, and so they sometimes get angry at men, blaming them for not being able to ‘handle’ a smart woman.The truth is that when we use our smarts and success as a mask to be worthy of the very love that we crave, we can’t be attractive and inspiring to the men we want to be attractive to, because it’s impossible; we’re not even being our natural selves; if we were being who we are which came effortlessly before we started using success to make lots of money and to make ourselves feel worthy, then attraction would not ever be a problem.If we aren’t in our true relaxed nature, we can still be good looking, but we wouldn’t be our infinitely attractive selves, inspiring the man we choose to devote ourselves to. And what is your opinion about it?What type of women do you personally prefer? Tanya)