Recently we seriously argued with friend on such subject. She says that sometimes you need to check phone of your beloved, some suspicious sms or calls. Other my friend said that it's so low. I wonder what men think about this? Men themselves sometimes do not even think about it, but immediately do it. And the inquisitive beloved suddenly and sharply remains alone. Of course, she immediately concludes that all her suspicions were correct, and the man just went to other woman. In fact, the man just left in a state of passion and rabies. Why does this happen? Because all people have their own code of permissible and unacceptable things. The awful injustice of such a code is that we are ready to forgive ourselves much more than to everyone else. Therefore, even if we have sometime changed our beloved - this is not a crime. But if she climbed into our phone or email and found out about it - that's already a grievous sin, a mortal insult and a reason to yell "You yourself have spoiled everything!". And it's hard to argue with such shout. After all, everything was quiet before, no one knew anything, and it turns out that she really spoiled everything. What do u think about?) How do you feel about your wife's correspondence or girlfriend with other guys? And would it be enough for the spirit to check her correspondence if possible? Olya)