Learning to recognize the woman that you are communicating with online. You need to have probing questions and listen to what their responses are to questions that you ask them. Your goal should be to weed out all the replies that don’t fit into the category of Real Women, unless you’re just into wasting your time and money on fantasies that will never come true. The scammers are easy to recognize they will give suggestions on what to get them and they will be quick to point out their material wants and needs.The Bloggers and Seducers are easy to recognize you too you just have control your response to them. Realize it’s just fantasy, and when is it enough and time to move on. The Fence Sitters and the Pretenders are much more difficult to recognize as even the Real Women will have many of the same worries about making the relationship something more than just a virtual experience. You have to be able to let go of someone even after you start getting all these crazy ideas in your head that you have found the right person. If you don’t the Fence Sitters and Pretenders will take up all your time and efforts and you will never progress to a real relationship only a virtual relationship. Then you will be the someone writing some blog telling all these women that you are leaving this site forever, but you have had a wonderful 3 years talking to them online, and you had some wonderful relationships. WTF (What The F*ck)!, 3 years of mindless chatting and emails without meeting them??? Have a plan and recognize people for who they really are, or you will end up being one of those guys. Scammers - These are women that are there for financial gain. They are looking for a big payout or any freebies that they can get from you. They will try to stretch out any relationship between you and her to include as many gifts as possible, and when the gifts stop so will the relationship. Some of these women will encourage you to come visit them because they know they can more gifts after a personal meeting and can include expensive dinners, trips, and other things that think you should provide to them for their company. Fence sitters - These are the women who will provide a real conversation in texting. They let you know in emails and texting what their personalities or beliefs are, but when it comes right down to it they aren’t sure if they aren’t that interested enough in you to actually meet you in person. You can talk to them for months but when it comes to meeting. They will first delay wanting more conversation to meet, and when they do agree to meet you they will not help to make the meeting happen. They will make you do all the work of planning a meeting and going to someplace that is difficult for you to travel to. They won’t meet you at the airport, they won’t travel to a big city like Kiev instead when it comes to actually meeting them they will cancel the meeting or just not bother bother to show up a scheduled meeting. They might even provide you excuses, yes, fence sitters love excuses. And every excuse works because in their mind your at the bottom of their list of priorities not the top! And this what you need to remember to identify them that are always putting other things as priorities in front of a meeting with you. The relationship is doomed before it ever started. Seducers - You these too they try to appeal to you based on your whatever your sexual interests are and they tell you how much this turns them on. They are willing to tell you whatever sexual things you want are enjoyable to them too. They are willing to get down and dirty in a texting or even on camera. But, you should now this just a porno show that they have provided to dozens of other men before you and are probably providing to other men after your conversation that day ends and the next man starts talking to them. They are too busy starting their own little porno business to actually meet. Bloggers - You know these people they send long daily or weekly stories of what happened to them I have had many of them sending daily or weekly blogs of what’s happening in someone’s life. They never have a personal conversation, and I am sure that they are sending copies to dozens of people and maybe change the name at the beginning. They can even include sexually provocative pictures to try to get your interest in their blog. They even answer an occasional question you send to them, but most of what they reply to you they are sending to many other men. They will usually tell you they are coming to your country ( fill in the blank) very soon and will meet you there. But, they are always encounter new problems and they never seems to be able to make the plans workout. Pretenders - Tell you how much they love you or want, but they don’t have time to actually met you. They always have a reason why they can’t met you in person. These are the worst because their actions make it evident that they were lying. They will try to get you feel things for someone that you should feel until after you met someone and get to know them. They are there to put you on an emotional roller coaster ride. They too will always have reasons not to meet you or they will agree to meet you but cancel at the last minute or not show up. There’s not much difference between the Pretenders and the Fence sitters. The pretenders will just sound more emotional they might even tell you how many tears they are crying over not being able to meet with you and how torn they are emotionally over it. Real Women - These women will want to meet you as soon as possible they know that real relationships happen in person not in virtual computer space. They use the email and chat to get you to come meet them in person, and to let get to know things about them. They will be anxious to encourage you to visit them and they help you plan a visit. They will be willing to travel inside their country to pick you up at the airport or meet you in another city that is easy for you to travel to. They will provide you detailed answers to questions you ask them. They will be asking you detailed questions, they will want to become part of your life and will want you to become part of their life. Ahhhh, a real relationship, this was probably what you wanted all along.