I've never written such publications before, that is why I will try to put all my thoughts together, to share them with you. I am, as well as you, dear reader, looking for a person who will fill my day with a deeper meaning. Frankly speaking, I have a great life, I have everything I need now and I achieved it by myself. The only thing that turned out to be beyond me was to find a decent man. In my country, as a rule, I was disappointed. Once I thought to myself "why not" and decided to try my luck in online dating. With time I understood that it is not easy to find a compatible partner, especially online... I think to search for love is very easy, especially when we have different opportunities, but to find it is very difficult. I am not speaking about that love which lasts few years and ends with the divorce/breakup. I mean that deep lasting love. In my opinion, nowadays the love search is more like a lottery. Maybe I am old-fashioned but I think that the key is in choosing that precious person who treasure not only the best but also the worst parts of you. I think this key has almost nothing with your looks, your age or level of success. There is no algorithm of love for sure. If you know it, please, share it with me :) It is the choice, the chemistry. Of course, it is almost impossible to achieve this chemistry just being online. To my mind, to find your decent partner is easier when you are ready to invest together and to find compromises. I think there is no need to become irresistible or to learn the skills of seduction. What I know for sure: love will find you, but you need to help it happen. Alina