Hello all and thank you for reading my blog. My name Andy(Andrew if you like) and I have been on a few pay sites. Some have been pretty expensive and some play the same game. I will give this site credit. The women that write to me are my age or in my age group or search group and don't write vulgar sexual messages all the time. Dont get me wrong. I am a man..and so ALL men like to read those messages but no one wants a wife that behaves that way. The credit system is a system often complained about and yes..by me too but it does have some good points. It does do away with rhe cheap perverts and it does do away with the ladies selling their bodies in a cheap manner. I often read from women "why do men ask to see nude pics of me and write perverted messages to me?" and so my answer to you is simply. STOP ADVERTISING YOUR BODY. ADVERTISE YOUR WONDERFUL MIND. YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR, YOUR FAMILY LIFE, AND YOUR COOKING ABILITIES. MAYBE TALK ABOUT YOUR FITNESS ROUTINE AND SHOW ONE OR TWO IMAGES OF YOUR BODY BUT IMAGES OF YOU IN LINGERIE AND A SMALL BIKINI will get perverts by the hundreds writing to you. I love bikini pics but those are for magazines and not for sites where men are supposed to meet their future wives. Ladies...can't you save the pics for the private messages? It will add mystery too! Men..be real. Don't fall for the message that you are the one they love after one message. It's not real. Insist on seeing your new friend and travel to see her. I have been to the Ukraine 19 times..many for work and many to see friends. Some trips to Russia also taught me alot and I learned that our money and our truth are not always theirs. Be safe and careful. If you need a translator then find someone that doesn't work for the agency and that works for a bank or a random restaurant. They will be faithful to your dollar and not to the game that some women may try to play. Don't buy a bunch of stuff. ALWAYS BUY TRAVEL INSURANCE. I WAS NEARLY KILLED IN KHARKOV AND OVER AN ATTEMPTED ROBBERY IN MY RENTED FLAT. I DID MARTIAL ARTS FOR 14 YEARS AND SO DID WELL BUT STILL AGAINST 3 MEN BEAT 2 OF THEM AND THE 3RD MAN HAD A METAL PIPE. I DIDNT SEE HIM AND HE BROKE MY NECK IN 19 PIECES. I WAS FLOWN OUT UNDER GUARD TO PARIS THEN THE USA AND NOW MY NECK IS TITANIUM. ALWAYS..ALWAYS PAY FOR TRAVEL INSURANCE AND ALWAYS ALWAYS WIRE MONEY AHEAD TO YOURSELF IN CASE YOU ARE ROBBED OR LOSE YOUR CREDIT CARD. THAT WAY YOU CAN GO TI WESTERN UNION AND PICK UP THE MONEY YOU SENT YOURSELF. BE CAREFUL. USE A SLIGHTLY DIFFERENT NAME TO SEND THE MONEY BUT BE SURE THE PICK UP NAME IS THE SAME ON YOUR PASSPORT...ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS DO THIS. IT WILL SAVE YOUR LIFE. IT HAS SAVED MINE. Next, some sites troll our profiles. I have written that I am 5 feet tall and 400 pounds and that I am blind and I STILL get chat requests from women that look like models. They don't care. They get paid. They will deny it but when you ask the site they will ban you or kick you off. I have caught women in 100% lies and have emailed service and their answer...they saw no issues with the site rules. In the same site they advertise that they pay sites quickly for their referrals. Bottom line. Do your homework. Ask for real info and if you get the run around Ask the site for a refund. If they don't then your visa company will....it's under card holder agreement I believe in not having to pay to meet women but enjoy meeting beauties m so I joined. I have never paid to meet women or have sex and never will and I encourage you ALL to stick to using common sense. A good woman is here somewhere for you among the fake ones. Find her...and don't let her go. And treat her like gold. Over there they don't have A lot so I send money when I can and do what I can. If I can not go out to eat once a week and send it to the Ukraine and it helps my woman and her child if she has one then KARMA has helped my world and hers. Show her love and she will show you endless love and do things to prove it that will make you never go anywhere else. I won't date or marry Any Ukrainian woman.without a child. They need a role model so I accept a woman that has children. I have a son and want her to accept him so I should accept my partners child or children. Family is the core of a happy life. To cook and clean and camp and do sports are all things real families do. And that is what a real man should seek...not a Barbie doll in a bikini with enhanced fake lips and plastic surgery. LADIES..STOP DOING IT. REAL MEN DONT LIKE IT. I PROMISE. WE WANT WHAT GOD MADE. YOUR LIPS HAVE GOTTEN TOO BIG...SIMPLY A TOTAL TURN OFF. DONT BELIEVE ME....LOOK AT THE REALLY SUCCESSFUL HOLLYWOOD ACTRESSES. JENNIFER LAWRENCE..REAL LIPS. SCARLETT JOHANSSON..REAL.LIPS...JESSICA BEAL..REAL LIPS...REESE WITHERSPOON...REAL LIPS. JENNIFER LOPEZ..REAL LIPS. DONT FOLLOW THE KARDASHIANS. WE CALL THEM THE HO-DASHIANS. FAKE FAKE FAKE GOD MADE US REAL. When I go to the gym I go to make my old body look better. Its not the best but its the best me. Be your best and the world will love you. If a man loves you as a fake you he will leave you when your body fails you. Last...you can't claim to be broke and need money but have all this plastic surgery. Be real. Real wins hesrts. Lies win loneliness