Please define "Western Men." As a young girl, you have been nowhere, done nothing, and don't have a clue about "Western men." Do you mean men west of Ukraine? I am certain that you will find French men much different than Spanish men, or British men, or those who hail from Finland, Norway, or Sweden. How about Italy? What of men in USA, Canada or Mexico? How about men from Central America? They are all men. They all look and talk differently; the have different cultures. How can you lump them into one basket? I am an American. I have dated "Asian" girls. Do you realize how different the cultures of Korea, Japan, China and Viet Nam are? Yet we say something stupid, like "Asian." We are not "Western men." WE are distinctly different. I would not know how to act in Finland or Norway or Sweden. I do not know Mexican customs, or Nicaraguan customs. I know nothing of Honduras. How about Colombia, Brazil, or Argentina? I know many men from these countries, and they would be wonderful husbands. How about the Philippines? Wonderful men. My nephew is married to a lady from the Philippines. She is a beautiful woman. Some of my best friends are from the Philippines. Do not lump all men into a category. Please revisit the topic of "Western men," then post again. No disrespect intended. You are a beautiful woman. David