The answer to it is unequivocal - it is permissible, and sometimes even necessary. After all, many men just hesitate to come first. There are many reasons for this: the inherent indecision and fear of hearing refusal or ridicule. Often, men are confused at the sight of the beautiful girl they like. Many girls stay in anticipation of the one and only, with whom they will be happy. Hope for a chance meeting, of course you can, but when such a meeting is and will be, a big question. So, if the girl really wants to find her happiness, then she must show herself. Men, don't afraid of such girls. They are looking for happiness. I am one of such women. I am looking for my only one and I am here for him. Who knows maybe is it you ? Julia